What Sparks My Admiration?

When I think about what truly sparks my admiration in others, it’s not wealth, power, or fame—it’s the simple yet profound qualities that reflect the beauty of the human spirit. Kindness tops the list for me. Seeing someone go out of their way to help another, whether it’s a grand gesture or a small act of generosity, always leaves me in awe. Like the stranger who buys coffee for the person behind them in line—these moments of thoughtfulness remind me how small actions can create a ripple effect of joy.

The Power of Empathy and Community

Empathy is another quality I deeply admire. It takes courage and strength to pause, listen, and step into someone else’s shoes, especially in a world that moves so quickly. Those who show and share genuine concern for their neighbors and communities truly inspire me. There are so many incredible people doing good things, often quietly, without seeking recognition. Amazing heroes walk among us, and you don’t have to look far—your own local community is likely full of them.

I think back to my time working with a community center that serves the homeless population in Springfield, MO. It was a brief assignment, but one that profoundly impacted me. I witnessed firsthand the resilience of the human spirit and the importance of offering not just resources, but dignity and understanding. It’s work I’d gladly do for free because it aligns so deeply with my values and reminds me of the power of kindness and connection. (You can read more about my experience here: A Brief Encounter, A Lasting Impact: My Time with the Homeless Community.)

Ways to Give Back This Holiday Season

As we approach the holiday season, I hope this reflection inspires you to think about ways you can give back. Whether it’s donating time, money, food, or simply spreading goodwill, there are countless ways to brighten someone else’s day. Local community centers, shelters, and non-profits are always looking for support, and your contributions—no matter how small—can make a lasting impact.

Here are a few ideas to get started:

• Donate to or volunteer at your local food bank or shelter. If you’re in Springfield, MO, consider supporting organizations like Ozarks Food Harvest or the Victory Mission, both of which provide vital resources to those in need.
• Support the O’Reilly Center for Hope through Community Partnership of the Ozarks. They offer essential services and programs to those facing homelessness and other challenges in the community.
• Participate in a coat or blanket drive. Many community centers and churches organize these during the winter to help families stay warm.
• Share your skills. Whether it’s teaching a class, helping with resume building, or offering your time for a community project, your expertise can make a difference.
• Check out VolunteerMatch (www.volunteermatch.org) to find opportunities near you, no matter where you live.

Admiration in Everyday Moments

I also admire love in its many forms—the patience of a mother gently guiding her child, the unspoken bond between friends who stand up for one another, or the simple joy of a child looking at the world with wide-eyed curiosity. These moments remind me that life’s most meaningful experiences are found in connection and care.

Goodwill, good character, and even good humor—especially the kind that makes us laugh with a bit of cheeky fun—bring light to my day. People who carry these qualities make the world feel a little less heavy and a lot more hopeful.

A Call to Be the Best Versions of Ourselves

In the end, what sparks my admiration most is seeing people live with honesty and integrity, standing up for what’s right, and spreading kindness wherever they go. These moments are little reminders of the goodness in humanity and a call for us all to be the best versions of ourselves. Let’s carry these reflections into the holiday season and beyond, turning fleeting moments into lasting legacies of kindness and hope.