An open book resting in soft light with a white rose placed across its pages, symbolizing quiet reflection and writing as a form of rest.

What I Enjoy Most in My Leisure Time…

The Work I Do When Nothing Is Required

If I’m honest, what I enjoy most in my leisure time is writing.

Not because it’s productive.
Not because it’s impressive.
And certainly not because it’s easy.

I write because it’s where I breathe.

For nearly two years now, I’ve been working on a book — quietly, steadily, sometimes stubbornly — often without knowing exactly where it would land. Sliver began as an academic curiosity and slowly revealed itself to be something far more personal: a lived exploration of perception, limitation, empathy, and the fragile architecture of being human.

Yesterday, without ceremony or intention, I brought it to a close.

The manuscript is finished — and yet, it isn’t finished at all.

Right now, I’m in what writers call the cooling-off period. The sit-away. The rest. A necessary pause where the work gets to exist without my hands on it. This isn’t hesitation; it’s respect. After eighteen months of immersion, the only honest next step is distance — so that when I return, I can see it with clearer eyes and steadier judgment.

This pause isn’t separate from the book’s philosophy.
It is the philosophy.

Sliver asks readers to notice thresholds — the spaces between certainty and curiosity, reaction and reflection. So before I share it, I’m practicing that same restraint. I’m letting the work settle into its foundation, much like a home does after the walls are up but before it becomes lived in.

A Note on Timing, Lineage, and 22

There is one more thing I want to name — not to assign meaning to it, but to honor it.

Yesterday, the day Sliver came to rest, was my Little Grandma Rose’s birthday.
She would have been 105 years old.

Her birthdate was January 22, 1921.
And for those of you who’ve been here a while, you already know: 22 has always been one of my numbers.

I didn’t plan for the book to finish that day. I didn’t aim for symbolism or alignment. In fact, I didn’t realize it until later — when the quiet finally settled and I noticed the date. But when I did, I felt something soften in me. A sense of closure that wasn’t about achievement, but about continuity.

This book is dedicated to family — to the ones who raised me, shaped me, steadied me. My Little Grandma Rose is one of my cornerstones. She lived through hardship, tenderness, humor, loss, and deep faith in ways that didn’t need language to be taught. She didn’t theorize wisdom; she embodied it.

So for Sliver — a book about perception, limits, humility, and shared humanity — to come to rest on her birthday felt less like coincidence and more like acknowledgment.

Not a sign that means something.
But a moment that belongs.

I’ve written before about how my relationship with numbers began the night she passed — about the 7s, the 22s, the quiet way reality seemed to tap me on the shoulder and say, pay attention. I’ve never claimed certainty about these moments. I’ve never tried to turn them into answers.

What I’ve learned instead is this:
Some patterns don’t ask to be decoded.
They ask to be respected.

So I’m holding this one gently — as a reminder that our work doesn’t emerge in isolation. It rises from lineage, memory, grief, love, and the people who taught us how to stand in the world long before we had words for it.

If nothing else, it feels like a quiet thank-you.
And that feels enough.

For those who are new here: welcome. CherryCoBiz has always been a space for evolution — wellness, social reflection, astrology, food, culture, and the quiet work of becoming more aware of ourselves and each other. Writing is how all of those threads meet for me. It’s how I make sense of the world — and how I stay tender inside it.

This is my first book. I’m learning as I go. I’ve learned how to trust my voice, how to sit with discomfort, how to let go of the need to “arrive.” And yes — ideas for what comes next are already forming. I suspect that part never really stops.

What Sliver offers is not answers.
That is deliberate.

It offers orientation.
A way of standing in the world without pretending you can see the whole of it.

So for now, I’m writing — not to conclude anything, but to stay present. To remain curious. To honor the space between knowing and not-knowing.

This is what I enjoy most in my leisure time:
building a place where shared realities can exist without collapse.

I’m glad you’re here.

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